Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffNov 24, 20213 min readWho is the Scapegoat in Your Family? (VaYeshev 5782)In family therapy, the therapist often looks to identify the roles that each family member takes on. In 1981, Sharon Wegschneider-Cruse...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffDec 17, 20203 min readDid Adam Have Seasonal Affective Disorder, and is Chanukah the Cure?Do you get down in the winter? Do you find it harder to be motivated, exercise and eat healthy? Is it harder for you to get up in the...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffMar 5, 20203 min readDoes Purim Teach Poor Parenting Practices? (Purim 5780)Full disclosure: I love Purim. It’s my favorite day of the year. I love the family themed costumes, the singing, dancing, levity, skits,...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffFeb 26, 20202 min readPracticing Religion Without Meaning Makes Depression Worse (Terumah 5780)Anyone who has grown up in a religious environment is all too familiar with the tension between performing rituals out of route habit...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffFeb 13, 20202 min readFather Involvement in Parenting (Yitro 5780)Should dad come to parenting sessions? Most therapists assume yes - two heads are better than one, right? But what if the scheduling is...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffJan 21, 20204 min readTake Deep Breaths to Lower Your Stress (Va'eira 5780)In this week’s parsha, parshat Va’eira, we encounter a unique and peculiar phrase: .ויְדַבֵּר מֹשֶׁה כֵּן אֶל בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל וְלֹא...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffJan 8, 20203 min readCognitive Reframing Helps Us Overcome Adversity (Vayechi 5780)At the end of a twenty two year saga, Yosef is able to look back on it all and see how everything that happened to him was part of God’s...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffJan 3, 20204 min readLean In to Your Anxieties (Yayigash 5780)(This article was originally published in the OU mental health newsletter https://www.ou.org/life/health/mental-health/vayigash-lean-in-t...
Rabbi Dr Saul HaimoffJan 2, 20203 min readMental health Science Blended with the TorahThis article was published in the Nassau Herald by Jeff Bessen Link to original article here: https://www.liherald.com/fivetowns/stories/...